The Real Cause of Inner Emptiness (And What to Do About It)

 Do you often feel empty inside? Do you believe that others should be filling you up? Discover the real cause of inner emptiness and what to do about it. 

1. You only live one time. Choose to live this life to the fullest potential.  

Do you often feel empty inside? Do you believe that others should be filling you up? Discover the real cause of inner emptiness and what to do about it. 

Read on.

I feel empty because:

• My partner is not giving me enough love and attention.

• I don't have a partner.

• I'm bored because my partner doesn't provide me with enough stimulation.

• My work is unsatisfying.

• I'm not successful enough.

• I don't have enough money.

• I have no one to play with on weekends.

• Nothing excites me. Life is boring.

• I don't get enough love, attention and approval from friends and relatives.

• I don't get enough sex.

None of these situations is a real cause of inner emptiness. 

 There are many are many substances, processes, behaviors and activities that people use addictively to try to fill the emptiness . These may work for the moment, but not for long. Soon, the emptiness is back and you are looking for someone or something to temporarily fill up the black hole . 

The problem with all these behaviors is that they only address the symptom of inner emptiness -- not the cause.

Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and you all shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. And behold, I am with you all the days, perpetually, uniformly, and on every occasion, to the very close and consummation of the age. Amen, so let it be. 

The Cause Of Inner Emptiness

There is only one thing that truly fills the emptiness. Love. There is only one cause of inner emptiness: a lack of love.

But it is not a lack of someone else's love that causes your emptiness. Inner emptiness is caused by self-abandonment -- by not loving yourself.

Inner emptiness comes from a lack of connection with your spiritual source of love -- from not opening to the love-that-is-God and bringing that love to yourself through true thought and loving action in your own behalf.

When you abandon yourself by judging yourself, ignoring your feelings by staying in your head, numbing your feelings through substance and process addictions and making others responsible for your feelings and for loving you, you will feel empty. You are causing your own emptiness by your self-abandonment.

Your ego-wounded self is filled with false beliefs regarding who you are. Your wounded self may see you as inadequate, unlovable, not good enough, not important, selfish, bad, wrong. Your wounded self operates from core shame -- that you are intrinsically flawed.

These are programmed beliefs that have no basis in truth, but they may be running your life. When you believe that you are not good enough, then you turn to others and to addictions to try to feel okay -- to fill the emptiness that you are causing with your self-judgment/self-abandonment.

Filling Your Inner Emptiness: Learning To Love Yourself

The truth of who you are comes only from your personal source of spiritual guidance -- whatever that is for you. When you open to learning with a source of higher guidance about the truth of who you are, and about what is loving action toward yourself and others, you open to the love-that-is-God coming into your heart and filling your inner emptiness.

This occurs when you shift your attention -- from protecting against pain and avoiding responsibility for your feelings through your addictive and controlling behaviors -- to learning, with your higher guidance, about what is loving to yourself and others.

Today, choose the intent to learn with your higher guidance about truth and about loving yourself -- even if you don't believe that anything is there to answer you -- and see what happens. You might start to feel full of love inside!

Deep calleth unto deep. The deep mercy of God needs our emptiness, into which it might pour itself.... Nothing can fully meet the depth of our need but the depth of His Almighty fulness. 

你是否经常感到内心空虚？ 你相信其他人应该填满你吗？ 发现内在空虚的真正原因以及如何处理它。

 1.你只活一次。 选择充分发挥这一生的潜力。

 你是否经常感到内心空虚？ 你相信其他人应该填满你吗？ 发现内在空虚的真正原因以及如何处理它。

 继续阅读。

 我感到空虚，因为：

 • 我的伴侣没有给予我足够的爱和关注。

 • 我没有伴侣。

 • 我很无聊，因为我的伴侣没有给我足够的刺激。

 • 我的工作不令人满意。

 • 我还不够成功。

 • 我没有足够的钱。

 • 周末没有人陪我玩。

 • 没有什么能让我兴奋。 生活很无聊。

 • 我没有得到朋友和亲戚足够的爱、关注和认可。

 • 我没有得到足够的性爱。

 这些情况都不是造成内心空虚的真正原因。

 人们成瘾地使用许多物质、过程、行为和活动来试图填补空虚。 这些可能暂时有效，但不会持续很长时间。 很快，空虚又回来了，你正在寻找某人或某事来暂时填补黑洞。

 所有这些行为的问题在于，它们只针对内心空虚的症状——而不是原因。

 悔改，奉耶稣基督的名受洗，使罪得赦，你们都将领受圣灵的恩赐。 看啊，我终日与你同在，永远、始终如一，在每一个场合，直到这个时代的尽头和圆满。 阿门，就这样吧。

 内心空虚的原因

 只有一件事能真正填补空虚。 爱。 内心空虚只有一个原因：缺乏爱。

 但是，导致你空虚的并不是缺乏别人的爱。 内心的空虚是由自我放弃引起的——不爱自己。

 内在的空虚来自于与你的爱的精神源泉缺乏联系——来自不向上帝的爱敞开心扉，并通过真正的思想和爱的行动为自己带来爱。

 当你通过评判自己而放弃自己，停留在头脑中忽视你的感受，通过物质和过程上瘾麻木你的感受，让别人对你的感受和爱你负责时，你会感到空虚。 你的自我放弃导致了你自己的空虚。

 你自负的自我充满了关于你是谁的错误信念。 你受伤的自己可能会认为你不够好、不可爱、不够好、不重要、自私、坏、错误。 你受伤的自我是从核心羞耻感中运作的——你本质上是有缺陷的。

 这些是没有事实依据的程序化信念，但它们可能会影响你的生活。 当你认为自己不够好时，你就会求助于他人和上瘾，试图让自己感觉良好——用你的自我判断/自我放弃来填补你造成的空虚。

 填补内心的空虚：学会爱自己

 你是谁的真相只来自你个人的精神指导来源——无论对你来说是什么。 当你在更高的指导下学习关于你是谁的真相，以及什么是对自己和他人的爱的行动时，你就会向进入你内心并填补你内心空虚的上帝的爱敞开心扉 .

 当您将注意力从防止疼痛和通过成瘾和控制行为避免对自己的感觉负责时，就会发生这种情况，在更高的指导下，学习什么是对自己和他人的爱。

 今天，选择在你更高的指导下学习关于真理和爱自己的意图——即使你不相信有任何东西可以回答你——然后看看会发生什么。 你可能会开始感到内心充满爱！

 深呼唤至深。 上帝深切的怜悯需要我们的空虚，它可能会倾注自己……除了他全能的丰满之外，没有什么能完全满足我们的需要。