Sunday, January 14, 2018

Chapter VIII Why Do Some People Self-heal Faster Than Others with PaidaLajin?

Chapter VIII   Why Do Some People
Self-heal Faster Than Others with
PaidaLajin?

It is easy to recover when the body 
gets sick, but difficult to recover when the Heart gets sick, and even 
more so when the soul gets sick. 
The body, Heart, and soul are connected. When one of them gets hurt, all get 
hurt. The Heart is the center among them. It can get sick, and it can also 
be healed. People who think too 
much do not have peace in the 
Heart. They are always negative, 
get sick often, and have difficulty recovering. Even when they 
recover, the Heart easily gets sick 
again, leading to other illnesses, 
again and again, like a ridiculous 
game we play. A chaotic Heart 
causes illnesses. So when we say “healing,” we really mean 
healing the Heart. During 
PaidaLajin practice, we need to overcome our fear, laziness, and skepticism. These are all illnesses 
of the Heart that are difficult to 
heal. This is why the words for 
“fear” ( "担") [dānxīn],
“laziness,” (惰 ) [dàiduò], and “skepticism”(疑論) [Huáiyí lùn] in Chinese all have the 
“Heart” component embedded in them.
  
 

All diseases are caused by sickness of the Heart.

When people get sick, they have been sick in the Heart already. “Disease,” or 病 in Chinese, has a component 丙. 丙 means “fire” according to the Five Elements Theory, which corresponds to the Heart, the center of our body. Our ancestors have already explained this to us through the creation of Chinese characters: all diseases are caused by sickness of the Heart, otherwise they would not be called “diseases” or 病, they would be called 疾. 
疾 has a component 矢, which means “arrow,” or external damage, and is pronounced with the sound of 急 (quick, urgent).

How does the Heart get sick? Why do most people 
get sick in the Heart without even knowing it?
The answer is simple. It is because the Heart has 
gotten hurt the most often and severely, ever since 
we were little. Children become unhappy when 
they cannot have the candy they want, cannot get 
good grades in school, or when other children’s 
toys or clothes are better than theirs. Then, when 
they grow up and fall in love, they will almost 
always experience heart-break. This is why most 
people, when they are heart-broken, say, “My 
heart is shattered.” And eventually, many of us 
experience all kinds of pressure from work, 
marriage, children, mortgages, relationships, 
overloading our hearts to the point where we can 
no longer cope, then our hearts get sick and along 
will come all kinds of negative emotions such as 
fear, anger, hatred, anxiety, tension, laziness, 
jealousy, frustration, and more. These are the 
exact opposites of joy, bliss, contentment, and 
happiness. Negative emotions are similar to the 
feeling of cold, which is a form of negative energy
that can lead to tightness and contraction of the
Heart. Heart contraction is very damaging, and
will lead to contraction of all tendons. When the
Heart, King of all organs, is in turmoil, everyone
—that is, every one of the other organs—will be
in turmoil, and all kinds of diseases will show up. 
When the Heart gets sick, the effect will trickle 
down to cause sickness in different parts of the 
body. And when the body gets sick, it will in turn 
lead to more sickness of the Heart. This vicious 
cycle goes on and on, till life ends.

PaidaLajin heals the Heart through the body. But if we lack confidence, determination, and perseverance, PaidaLajin will not work, or it will not result in the desired effects. Self-healing will not happen when you do not have the will to self-heal. Even when we recover, we will still get sick again. This is why many people have discovered, even when they have recovered from their
physical illnesses, if they are still unhappy and still have things that they can’t let go of, negative emotions will creep up whenever possible. This is the healing crisis of the Heart.

Why do many people cry so uncontrollably at our workshops? This is not because of physical pain, but due to the rhythm produced by PaidaLajin. The rhythm goes straight to the Heart, untangling it. This is what we call 开心, or “opening the Heart” which means “happiness” in Chinese. Mutual Paida and experience sharing at the workshop allow people the chance to let go of “secrets” that burdened their hearts, to “open” their hearts to people, and to be happy. Our ability to self-heal has always existed, long before there were doctors. But if we do not believe we have this ability, we can only seek external help.

Self-healing has nothing to do with money, but with the Heart.

I received a referral from a friend, who had 
convulsions, neck pain, shoulder pain, and chest 
pain. He had seen many renowned doctors of 
many disciplines—Western doctors, Chinese 
doctors, acupuncturists, chiropractors, and 
others, all in vain. He still suffered from pain and 
agony, and he found me.

I: “You could self-heal with PaidaLajin.”

He: “I am really sick. Please help!”

I: “If you are really sick, then do come to a PaidaLajin workshop as soon as possible.”

He: “I want to fly you over to America to cure me. I will buy your air ticket, pay for your hotel, and your fees.”

I: “I am not a doctor. I do not treat patients. I only run workshops to teach people how to self-heal. Why don’t you fly yourself over to the workshop?” 

He: “I am too busy at work.”

Hear this? This is a very typical dialogue. Many people think they can pay to have their pains and diseases cured. But self-healing is really a wake-up call from within. It has nothing to do with money, but everything to do with the Heart. The guy was so sick already and still he could not let go. 忙 (Busy-ness)” is made up of the “Heart” and “death” components. So “busy-ness” means “the Heart is dead,” or at least the Heart is numb. Western medical doctors see the heart as a physical organ, but Chinese doctors see the Heart not only as a physical organ, but also as energy, a system that cannot be seen. Our ancestors called it “light from above,” so our Heart is our light, our guardian.

The Heart can feel all agonies, pressures, and negative emotions. But doctors, MRI, electro-cardiograms, and other machines may not be able to detect it. It is easy to believe that good test results mean that the heart is well, and then we will continue with all kinds of activities that put more pressure on the Heart. The Heart bears with this unconditionally, but all kinds of sickness can begin to appear in various parts of the body. And doctors will assign different names to these diseases, such as cancer, fatigue, insomnia, diabetes, depression, constipation, neck pain, back pain, leg pain, hair loss, skin disease, high blood pressure, or gynecological disorders.

All diseases are Heart illnesses.

These diseases are really Heart illnesses manifested in different forms. If not, they are not called 病, but 疾 or “external damages.” Simply put, illnesses of the body are signs of sickness of the Heart. But we do not believe it, and may continue to busy ourselves until we die. This is letting go, finally. When we let go only at our deathbed, it is not letting go naturally, but we are forced to let go. People who die quickly all share one similarity: they push their hearts to the extreme before they die.

With this gentleman, it did not matter that I explained to him, “I am not a doctor. I do not cure people. I just teach people self-healing methods,” not to mention that I already had other commitments; he still wanted me to cure him. 

I said, “If your disease is severe and you feel anxious about it, why not come to the workshop as soon as possible?”

He said, “My project is very important, and I really cannot come. Can you please come yourself or recommend someone to come and help me PaidaLajin? I will pay for your air fare and fees.”

He absolutely had no interest in self-healing, and was just after finding people to cure him. His logic was that his business was very important, and this disease was very annoying; it came at the wrong time. And treating illness is a doctor’s business, so he paid doctors to treat him. When it failed, and he heard that PaidaLajin would work for him, he wanted to pay money for people to do PaidaLajin to him. Unable to convince him, I advised him to read my book and blog to understand the philosophy of PaidaLajin and practice it himself. After much persuasion, he finally agreed to read the blog.

The next day, this guy wrote me, “I have read 
your blog. Now I am convinced that I do need 
Paida. Would you please find someone to do 
Paida for me? Please!”

I replied, “You could Paida your own universal regions (elbows, knees, hands and feet), and do stretching on a Lajin bench.

He said, “I want to have someone do Paida for me, because I have no energy to do it myself.”

I told him, “You can use a Paida stick. It saves much energy. And you can do Lajin on your own.” 

Then he asked, “Where would it be most effective to do Paida?” 

This is a question that many people have asked. 
Many people are reluctant to understand the 
principles of Paida; they just want to know all the 
key philosophies of self-healing in a few minutes. 
This is the logic of modern medicine: apply 
treatment to wherever there are symptoms. But 
the problem is, all diseases are complex diseases. 
Disease names only give an indication to the 
symptoms, and often just some of the symptoms. 
Besides, where there are symptoms and where 
the disease originates are often not the same. For example, headaches can be treated by applying 
stimulation on the feet, stomach aches can be 
treated by stimulating Zusanli acupoint below the 
knee, and constipation can be treated by slapping 
the back of the hands. But even if these work for 
the time being, it only helps relieve part of the 
problem, the real problem is due to blockages of 
many different meridians. I call this “complex 
disease,” because all meridians in the body are 
blocked to varying degrees.

In other words, expressed diseases are often just symptoms, and there exist many more diseases that just lie dormant. This is especially true with heart disease. Very often, heart disease is unknown to the patient himself and his doctor, and cannot be detected by any medical equipment. This is why many people who die of sudden heart attack often receive good results 
from hospital heart checks. Healing must be holistic, and the Heart must stay healthy. This is an open secret, and we all know this. Otherwise, even when all symptoms are cleared, it does not mean the person has healed. The key point is, the source of illness needs to be cleared. Where is the source of illness? In the Heart.

Diseases are not cured, but are self-healed.

We are all born with the power to self-heal, the power from the universe. Even medical treatments need to work through the self-healing power.

And it is safe to say that we get sick because of 
the existence of our self-healing power. This is how the wisdom of the universe cautions us that our thinking and behaviors are off track. If we are grateful for the kind reminder and are willing to do PaidaLajin, we will self-heal faster. But unfortunately, our feelings toward illness are often negative, and filled with hatred. Though there are many reasons for diseases to exist, diseases are really self-made; we really are the ones who have caused them. If we do not find the disease source from within and are not remorseful, nor try our best to love ourselves and simply wait for others to treat us, how can we get better? Diseases are  opportunities: whether to transcend or to corrupt, it all depends on us. All diseases come from the Heart, and all cures also come from the Heart. Our hearts have immense power. Our life, health, bliss, and even the power of the universe are extensions of the power of our hearts. Being overly dependent on others for treatments is an amputation of this power, an amputation of the most powerful source of self-healing. This is the greatest source of illness today. As the saying goes, “There is no bigger sorrow than the death of the Heart.”

Once we know the cause of illness, it becomes 
much easier to heal. Simply put, diseases are not 
cured, but are self-healed, all of them are. Even 
when you go see a doctor, when you are given 
medications, injections, surgeries, or counseling 
sessions, these just facilitate your recovery and 
do not cure you. You always get better through 
the work of your own self-healing power. 
PaidaLajin is like a key that activates this self-
healing power. It is your business that you have 
caused your own disease. It is also your business 
when you diagnose, heal, and prevent yourself 
from getting a disease. You can only activate the 
power of self-healing; others can only assist you.

In fact, those who have experienced the best 
effects of PaidaLajin are those who do it whole-
heartedly. For example, consider 39-year-old 
hypertensive patient Mr. Huang Changsheng 
from Malaysia, muscle atrophy and rheumatoid 
arthritis patient Eva from Hong Kong, and 
diabetic patient Mr. Yang Weijie from Macau. 
They all applied PaidaLajin the first instant after 
learning about it, and all signed up for the 
workshop right away, and continued to persist in 
PaidaLajin after the workshop. The power of the 
Heart was the key to their successful self-healing: 
confidence, determination, and perseverance.

Mr. Huang Changsheng, faced with humiliations 
from his family, stood firm and was determined
to “abuse” himself with PaidaLajin. The result
was that not only did Mr. Huang self-heal 
hypertension without any medicine, but his wife 
and daughter eventually also self-healed various 
diseases with PaidaLajin. Then his family turned 
their house into a PaidaLajin center. There are 
always tens of people coming to his house for 
PaidaLajin. Many have healed themselves of 
diabetes, hypertension, hemiplegia, and cancer.

When Eva had lost all hope, at the height of Yin 
came the rise of YangEva’s immense 
determination got activated, she did PaidaLajin 
for 10 hours a day. This paid off and her muscle 
atrophy, rheumatoid arthritis, and other diseases 
all self-healed. Later on, she slapped her father 
and helped him heal terminal prostate cancer and 
other illnesses. She is now a Paida expert.

As for Mr. Yang Weijie, he had taken so many 
insulin shots that his stomach area rotted. And other than diabetes, he also had diseases of the heart, liver, and kidneys. After attending a PaidaLajin workshop, Mr. Yang stopped all medicines and insulin injections, and his diabetes and other diseases were completely cured, like a miracle. It’s been four years now. What does it mean by “completely cured”? It means all his health data showed up normal according to a Western medical checkup. Now he is a “professional slapper” helping many people heal pains and diseases.

The meaning and values of PaidaLajin workshop

The core values of the workshop: Not only does it produce self-healing effect for people, but more importantly, it elevates a person’s Heart, values, and thinking, giving it positive energy, and allowing one to understand self-healing from the Heart. PaidaLajin can be learned in minutes, but the philosophy of self-healing—how to maneuver confidence, determination, endurance and other positive energies; how to exercise our own judgment to diagnose and self-heal; how to maintain good health, prevent illness, recover from diseases, combat or even reverse aging—is the reason our workshops are so attractive. For participants, participants’ families, coaches, doctors, scientists, and government officials, the workshop is the best classroom, the best clinic, and the best scientific research laboratory for learning and examining self-healing.

A self-healing coach needs to have participated in 
workshops over ten times, or even several dozen 
times, to gradually become a qualified coach. 
Coaches have succeeded in self-healing during 
and after a workshop, and then decide to commit 
themselves to promoting self-healing with 
PaidaLajin. But once committed, they all,
without an exception, experience healing reactions
of the Heart. All kinds of illnesses lying dormant
in their hearts emerge, and they go through various 
stages of healing reactions of their body, Heart, 
and soul. Every workshop has different cases, 
different energies, and different healing 
reactions. Coaches and participants who have 
participated in many workshops will have a 
different experience at each one, and transcend 
every time. For those who have not attended a 
workshop but are eager to Paida for other people, 
they will face fear, doubt, rejection, all kinds of 
healing reactions, and challenging questions. It 
often impacts them negatively, driving down 
their confidence, or leading to healing reactions 
being expressed in them.

 Why do we call this a “workshop”? Because PaidaLajin can only be learned through practice, not through discussions. Only through slapping and being slapped, can one experience the psychological changes, and the interaction between body, Heart, and soul. Only at workshops can you experience and appreciate the magic of life through fasting, meditation, and Zen jogging, and gradually elevate your health management to life management. From this perspective,
PaidaLajin serves as a good complement to yoga,
prayers, meditation, and other spiritual practices. 
Why do Muslims invite me to teach PaidaLajin at 
mosques? It is because we do not talk about 
religion. We only talk about self-healing. 
Muslims who were not able to pray because of 
their back and knee pains, can kneel down and 
pray again after PaidaLajin. Meditators who were 
not able to cross one leg can, after PaidaLajin, 
cross both legs when meditating. Need we say 
more?

Be grateful, remorseful, and self-heal

But please remember, even if we have self-
healed at workshops, it does not mean we will
have good health forever—because it is difficult
to stop ourselves from hurting our hearts. Some
people stop PaidaLajin as soon as their health is 
recovered, and re-enter into the much-pressured 
world of moneymaking and career ladder 
climbing, so they get sick again quickly. Others 
want to earn the most money now so that they 
will have enough money to see the doctor after 
they retire. And their wish comes true—all their 
hard-earned money goes to the hospital. These 
people will put things behind them as soon as 
they get their health fixed, failing to be grateful 
and remorseful, not knowing how sick their 
hearts really are.

If we do not know how to reflect on our wrongdoings, how to draw on our own resources, and always view illnesses as an external matter or other people’s business, then it is not genuine remorse. “Remorse” in Chinese is 忏 悔, both words have the “Heart” component embedded in them. If we are not remorseful, it will be difficult for us to truly recover from illness, because the illness is rooted in our hearts. First we need to be remorseful toward the body, because it has become sick as a result of abuse. Being sick is a signal that your body has reached a breaking point and is crying for help. In addition, we need to be genuinely sorry to those we have hurt with our words, actions, and thoughts.

感恩, or “grateful” in Chinese, also has the “Heart” component embedded in them. We should communicate with our hearts, and be grateful to our bodies, to all the body parts and organs that become sick; they all have their own lives and feelings. We should be grateful to the universe, to our parents, family, and friends, to all beings, all people, all things, and all matters that have 
helped us grow. When we feel grateful as we 
practice PaidaLajin, we will experience 
exceptionally good self-healing results. After 
mastering PaidaLajin, the best way to express 
gratitude is to introduce it to more people. 
Sharing your experience and encouraging others 
to self-heal is definitely no small act of kindness. 
A whole family could be saved because of your 
testimonial.

The relationship between money and disease

Many diseases are related to money. If you do not 
believe me, run a mental evaluation of yourself, 
and think about how money has affected you. 
Money is so mesmerizing because it is related to 
the Heart. This is why Jesus said in the Bible, 
“For where your treasure is, there your heart will 
be also.” But this is not to say if you have less 
money, you will have more sickness, or vice 
versa. The key point is your attitude toward 
money, which is dependent on your Heart. With 
the wrong attitude, money will not bring 
treatment but cause diseases; the more the 
money, the more the diseases. Many countries 
are having great difficulties in medical reform. 
This is because they are on the wrong money 
path.

As the saying goes, “There are no small acts of evil.” Accumulated small acts of evil will lead to catastrophes. Disease is one example of catastrophe. There is a reason for all diseases. Money is intertwined in the happenings of disease, bad luck, good luck, and longevity. The fates of individuals, countries, and all of humanity are made by us in such action-reaction cycles.

The relationship between “image” and disease

Many do not understand this: Why is it that some people are successful in their careers, have a happy family, their children are well-established, and then they still suddenly fall sick and die young? The answer is simple: they are in pretence.

Many people do not live their lives honestly. They 
live for others, protecting their “image” while 
suffering inside. It would be wondrous if they did 
not get sick. Among these cases, those who 
pretend to have a perfect family are the most 
miserable, and have the most common illnesses, 
such as depression, gynecological disorders, and 
cancer. Loads of clinical data point to the same 
conclusion. I am constantly in touch with these 
people and their families day in and day out, 
online and offline, at talks and at workshops, so 
feel much empathy toward them.

If we were to lift the layers of vanity, pretence, illusions, and disease names, we would discover that the cause of all diseases is the same. It is the sickness of the Heart. The Heart is sick because of money, and more often because of “image”; money and “image” are always interrelated. Many of us love brand-name goods, which are goods of “image.”

Some are keen to promote PaidaLajin because 
they have benefited from it. But during the 
process, as obstacles are met, the Heart will get 
sick uncontrollably, going through all sorts of 
healing reactions and negative emotions—fear, 
hatred, worries, laziness, jealousy, arrogance, 
skepticism, among others. All these negative 
emotions will damage the Heart. For example, 
some promote PaidaLajin unconditionally and 
with gratitude, so they feel happy. But when 
others do a better job, they feel unhappy. This is 
a healing reaction of the Heart caused by power 
and interest. Physical illness is healed, and then 
comes the Heart illness. Healing reactions are 
really relapses of old diseases. Our ancestors 
called Paida “surfacing the old diseases,” or 
“slapping out the demons” because this is how 
demons and diseases lie deep inside surface. 
Some do not care how many would benefit from 
the self-healing method, but just care about 
whether his or her own power or interest would 
be affected. This is why these self-healed people 
get sick again, and get dragged down by 
negative emotions.

Some know the benefits of PaidaLajin, and introduce it to their families; but because of pain, tiredness, and fear of criticism about being unscientific, they become concerned that others will see Sha on their bodies and that their looks will be affected. This is the negative effect of power. Being overly concerned with one’s looks indicates that one does not genuinely believe in self-healing, but only believe it half-heartedly. If you care about your looks more than your health and morals, and only want to be pampered and not have anything to do with pain and rough times, then it is only normal to become sick, and normal to get sick again after recovery. This is the law of nature. So there is a saying, “Nothing slips through God’s net, no matter how sparse the net is.”

Can PaidaLajin really be free?

Compared to Western healing, PaidaLajin greatly improves efficacy and lowers medical spending. According to our surveys, about 80% of those who participated in our workshops no longer need medication, and their health condition is better than when they were under medication. But many are still hesitant about spending any money on it, and hope that it could be completely free. There is no need to hesitate, really. Countless people have already self-healed, with not a penny spent. There are new testimonials coming in every day. We have devoted many efforts to our blogs, Weibo, Wechat, Chinese, and English websites, all for the purpose of letting you learn PaidaLajin and self-heal free of charge. If you do not mind inadequate effects, you can practice Lajin with chairs against a wall. And if you do not mind the effort, you can make your own Lajin bench, Paida stick, and ginger and jujube tea. If you and your family practice Lajin every day, the pro-rata cost of a Lajin bench is only a few pennies, which is much cheaper than the transportation costs and clinic fees that you and your family would pay if you were to go see a doctor.

Even though you can freely learn this self-healing method on the web or at talks, please note that these offerings cost our organization. This leaves us with only one option—to conduct workshops like a business, and sell Lajin benches and Paida sticks.

Often people feel unhappy about any service that 
requires a service fee; these people almost 
always end up getting sick again, and sick in the 
Heart. They believe that PaidaLajin should be 
promoted completely free of charge. We want 
this too. Perhaps the day will come when we do 
not need to worry about feeding our families, or 
finding funds for traveling to promote 
PaidaLajin; then, we will be able to do it totally 
free of charge. 

The secret of self-healing: healing reactions

We as individuals and a group keep going through 
healing reactions. The secret is that healing 
reactions provide the best opportunity for 
diagnosis and self-healing. In Chinese, “threat” is 
made up of two components: 危 meaning “danger,
” and 机 meaning “opportunity.” There are 
opportunities in threats. We have much evidence 
to prove that the stronger the healing reactions 
are, the more effective the self–healing will be. 
This is because going through healing reactions 
means going through disease screening and 
self-healing together, all in one go.

We know it is very difficult to heal illnesses of the Heart—fear, laziness, jealousy, and skepticism is always here to attack us. Healing reactions happen all the time, so we have no choice but to keep answering emails and phone calls, and keep going through the same questions and answers, the same basic principles online and offline, and 
we have no choice but to continue running 
workshops. We have discovered that workshops 
are, to this day, the best way for people to 
experience PaidaLajin, and the best place for 
people to self-heal their Heart illnesses. Different 
types of disease will flare into different forms of 
healing reactions, where Heart illnesses that
were oblivious to us will be exposed. The best 
description of this comes from a folk poem:

I say, come come come self-heal,
You say, ne ne ne money got none.
Sick sick sick, spend all it takes,
Regret ‘gret ‘gret, cannot turn back.
I say, come come come PaidaLajin,
You say, aye aye aye got no time!
Go go go, till your last breath out,
Done done done, all become none.

PaidaLajin should become a way to maintain health and prevent illness, and not a method for curing diseases. However, in today’s world, people are most interested in disease treatment, so we have no choice but to promote PaidaLajin as such. PaidaLajin can heal all kinds of diseases, but it is not a guaranteed cure. You need to be willing to self-heal, and willing to be your own doctor. If you cannot rid yourself of Heart illnesses, they will 
attack you in various forms of negative emotions 
and explode into healing reactions. Whenever you 
feel annoyed, you are going through a healing 
reaction. The fact is, you already have these 
diseases lying dormant in you; otherwise it would 
not be possible for healing reactions to exist at 
all. It is not possible for PaidaLajin to create 
heart attacks and high blood pressure.


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